Just Pass Me By

I am so tired of my job and hearing the girls complain about being looked at by creepy men. Well the men may not stare at them if they where not showing half of their boobs. I am tired of hearing them complain about being to cold because they are dressing in clothes that either to small or well not very much of it their.

Today I was like what do you expect the men are going to stare at you because of what your wearing, half your boobs are showing. They didn’t like hearing that to bad. I am so tired of hearing about all the ways your can have relations with the another. I am sorry but I do not need to know what they do with their others.

I am embarrassed by the girls I work with, I understand they are all younger then me and clearly they don’t have the same morals as I do. I don’t expect them to have my morals, or level of Privacy in their life as I have, but I do expect them to not talk about their very personal lives.

Why must they complain about being stared at if they are wearing clothes that is revealing. They are asking to receive attention that may not be desirable. I am not saying a man would have a right to rape them or cause them harm. No one has that right, and they wouldn’t have asked for it neither. What I am saying is if half your boobs are showing don’t be surprised if you being stared at, your inviting it.

Don’t be surprised if your coworkers, tell you that too especially if your complaining. I wonder whatever happened to dress codes and work place behavior because this place is missing it. I know I could say something to the company I am temping with but I don’t want to get them in to trouble. We are already at a job which isn’t paying us enough to live off of and I know they need money.

I get that at work people do tend to share some of their personal life, I know I do but I never share my private personal relationship. That is between me and my husband, and should be kept between them and their boyfriends.