Just Pass Me By

Before my husband and I went down to see dad we had talked about some of hubby’s concerns for his dad. Over the last couple of years we noticed dad has some growth on his face to me they look like moles, moles aren’t necessarily bad unless they start changing cheaps or colors sometimes they are bad even with out changing.
I have had a mole on my side of my face for a long time since I was a early teen, it’s level with my eye but can be hid with my hair, I would love to get it removed but not sure if the scar is worth the not having it there. I told my husband I have had this for a while and if dad got what I have or similar he aught to be fine.
We talked to dad about getting it checked to make sure it nothing bad. Dad said he would next time he went to the doctor. We worry about him because of losing mom to cancer. I am not saying because mom had it he’ll have it in some other form. But because he smokes and does other things which aren’t healthy we worry he has increased his risk. Dad has a health plans through the company he retired from. I know the people he living with now are safer I just hope they are making sure he taking his meds, and that he is seeing his doctor when he aught to. I thinking for my husband and I cancer will always be our greatest fear for our loved ones.