You better have a army
December 13th, 2008 at 11:02 pm (family)
You and whose army, I know everyone familiar with that saying. I know I heard it a lot growing up. My sister in law has been impossible to want to deal with, yesterday she called dad threating him. Dad was worried she actually be able to get down here. All I have to say is to get to dad your going to have to get through me, and well that’s going to be you and whose army.
Dad served in WW2, he does not deserve this type of disrespect from her or her friends. Dad biggest problem is he would give the shirt off his back if someone needed. I know dad not prefect, but still no matter what he doesn’t deserve childish behavior from an adult daughter. She had nothing better to do then call him and harrassing him, she told him she would send someone here to hurt him. We told dad keep the doors locked. If they come call the Police, and tell them what been happening.
If this crap don’t stop with my sister in law, she might have harrassement charges slapped on her as quickly as she can count to one. Enough is enough, dad doesn’t need to be told she going to hurt him, or someone else will. What has wrong with this woman that she thinks the whole word revolves around her and everyone gotta side with her.
Tonight taking dad to get his stuff, I was told something from someone. The person told me they worried for my well being getting the stuff because of something said. I choice to go and see what would happen, figure there is no need to get police involve unless something happens. I will give the person the benefit of the doubt expecially since some other things have been said, that made things more clearer. Nothing happened I was safe the whole time like I figured I would be, sometimes it’s easier to assume evil of people but sometimes you have to go with knowing G-ds there and in control.
It seems my sister in law causes so much trouble, and so much stress for dad. I know she his daughter and wants to have something to do with her but just can’t handle it. She thinks we made him come up here, well no dad decide it was better for him. He more happier here. You know he hasn’t smoked that much since he been up here with us, there is no tempation of alcohol for him. I can’t believe the little rat told dad he need to sober up, when in this house hubby and I do not have anything in here that could get dad or us drunk. Someone needs a reality check. Dad came up here because he is safe with us. He is loved and protected, you’d better bring your army with you, if your missing with dad.
Families can be messy sometimes, families are hard but that don’t make it right to lie about someone in the family. The thing is I can’t believe anything my hubby sister says because she known to make up stories about dad when she didn’t get her way. Dad wanted to go down for Christmas but know he don’t even want to do that, but he will miss christmas. Hubby and I do not celebrate it and we have no interest in it. We will need to find dad some thing to do to celebrate christmas, maybe some church will have some Christian videos night there about Christmas and it will make dad feel better. He not where we are at faith wise and I do not expect him to be. Hubby and I might not agree with everything dad does but we will be supportive of dad.
