Just Pass Me By

Have you ever noticed that some people have a very different idea of things. Like camping my husband and I don’t think the same way at all. I believe camping isn’t with WI-Fi or other things like that, not even with Sat Tv why do we need that we aught to be spending time together exploring and having fun. But now to be fair to hubby he likes the indoors unless he fishing, good luck getting him to want to do anything outside. He blames it on his misqouto allergy, fine I am allegeric to Bees and Wasps but I do not let that stop me from going outside during the summer and having some fun.
We need a break from everything so does dad. There are a lot of things going on in his life and well frankly I want to see him have some type of enjoyment and fun. He hasn’t had much of that, and lets face it he is 86 and not in the greatest health. Yesterday we got some discouraging news for him, and us. The doctor thinks he may have a dormant cancer in his prostate. We have decided not to say anything to his sister just incase it’s really nothing. Dad talked to me some about it and asked some questions which I honestly do not have the answer for and probably will never really have the answer for it. Maybe Westgate would be away to simply hide from everything eventhough we can’t really hide from it because no matter what it won’t go away.
We recently last mom from cancer, and I lost my father and a few other from cancer, I honestly do not want to watch my hubby dad die from this too. My concern along with my husband is that cancer can spread very quickly and become like a wild fire if not handle correctly, the fear here is that if we do not respond to this we might wait to long like they did with mom and nothing was able to extend her days.
Right now they say it’s smoldering, and to not give it testostorone because not giving it that will strave the cancer, but at the same time they are doing low dose of testorone so how long before this low dose starts the wild fire. Maybe I should find some peace that the doctor said more unlikely this type of cancer is not going to be the thing to take dad’s like most men die from something totally unrelated to prostate cancer.
I guess I have to do some research and hope I gain some insight and understand. Between memory lost and my husband sister being a really crazy jerk, and yelling at me because I am protecting dad against her vulture friends who took advantage of dad. How nice, funny how when we do the right thing by dad hubby sis gets mad at us, because we stop standing for her friend taking money and using dad name to get bills. She better becareful because she will reap what she is sewing in her laugh. I feel bad on the other hand, because when we go for our vaction I would love to be able to invite her and her family but I will not put myself, dad or hubby through that type of stress. It amazing how on one hand I want hubby sister there and more involved with us but on the other hand I do not I would love to keep her from contacting us because everytime she does it always trouble. She one minute yelling at dad and yelling at hubby and I then later she acting as nice as can be. One minute she kind next minute she different, never know what her mood going to be. Hubby don’t want to tell his sister anythign because she always makes it about her, but there will come a time when we have to deal with telling her.