Just Pass Me By

Sometimes I feel like my husband and I are alone in dealing with everything. My husband and I had our wedding anniversary last night but didn’t get to celebrate because we got married on dad’s b-day. We choose to throw dad a little get together with his grand son and the grandchild father. Dad has a habit of lying he is the biggest liar I have ever met, and right now I am feeling a little angry. My husband and I are scarifying a lot so dad can live with us, if he wasn’t here he’d need to be in a home.
Dad been telling his daughter who has been very uneasy to deal with for quite a while that we have refused to take him down, even though He himself does not want to go down. He says we won’t give him a ride down there, after we told him if he wanted to go he can go. Then he says well then I can’t see this grandchild. Yes if we go down then we can’t see the other one for the day. Instead of owing his feelings he blames it all on hubby and I. Great.
My husband and I get one night a week together, and even those night have been cut short because of dad wanting our attention 100 % of the time. If we go out he lies to people at our congregation and tells them we are out all hours of the night and don’t feed him or other things. This is concerning because we are not out all hours of the night except for maybe once in while when hubby wants to go singing and then we leave later. Oh well, when we try to talk to dad about him telling people untruths he gets angry about it. He doesn’t realize if he lying people are going to maybe believe him.
Now he lying to the grand children about hubby and I and we aren’t even doing what he claims. We are listening to him say I do not want to go down, what are we supposed to do make him go down anyways this way the grandchildren now we are not the horned devil him and their mom has made us out to be.
I am a full-time student once in a while I am out late because of class but then hubby is home. I think I need to start taking diet pills to lose weight faster, but hey I broke my wisdom tooth this week, and every dentist I been to say it don’t look well and my jaw going to be broke that will make me lose weight.
Today dad talked to his daughter to tell her, he didn’t have a ride down because the kids won’t let him go. This is after I threw him a surprised B-day party, because I knew it was important to him. I have put him before my husband in many ways, because I feel dad needs more care, and time then hubby. I am just tired of not being able to talk to my husband about things with out dad worrying we are going to separate, or something. We don’t even have to be arguing for dad to assume the worst of us.