Just Pass Me By

I think the dog is trying to test patients with hubby and I. All this week she wanted nothing to do with going potty for me, and now she going for me she refusing for hubby. Several times this week, she had to go and started and then decided oh no I am not going. And held it in until hubby took her out. Okay grant it the only reason why she holds it in is because we put her in the kennel when she refuses to go potty for us. She must think that she gets Ferrari parts if she doesn’t do her business. I even tried putting her on the balcony with the leash still on, but she wanted nothing to do with it. Yesterday I guess the dog decided I was the one she wanted to be good for because she went both right away. Today she did it again. Now the question is how to get the dog to go consistently for both of us when she needs to go. I don’t care if she don’t go if she don’t need to but when she clearly gotta go I care that she not going because I hate keeping her in the kennel all day.
Lately the cat been going into the dog kennel with her, it kind of funny. The cat is a lot bigger then the dog, but they act like siblings.