Just Pass Me By

I have to admit having the same conversation is a little frustrating. I understand why so I try not to let it bother me to much. Dad has been upset that the grand kids are still holding a hate towards my hubby and I. I simply don’t care anymore it’s their fault if they don’t get to see grandpa because he wants us with him on his visit. One of the kids doesn’t know when to stop teasing him and it upsets him.
I understand why they are angry and unhappy, but you know I wouldn’t have cared how much I hated my aunt and uncle, if it was to see my grandparent I would have went and dealt with it. But they are not me and hopefully they will learn to let go of their hate, and bad feelings towards us.
Dad will not have many more days of having his mind well enough to remember who they are. Dad will become no more fun for the grand kids and I am sorry they are going to hate us after dad pass on. Nothing will fix that because their parent don’t want to do anything they want hubby and I to take the blame and anger for one of them being sent to live with them. I honestly think next time I am asked to do something to help him I will say not and go find some acne scar removal treatment for the kids because I will have nothing to do to bring more hate on my hubby or I. If they are being abuse fine I will report it again but I will have nothing more to do with it. Dad is 87 he’s losing his mind and the grand kids are more worried about being disrespectful when they talk to him or use let them have their due reward. I am sick of having dad feelings hurt because the kids want nothing to do with us. I told him if he wants to see the kids I can drop him off and pick him up later, but dad says no. If you kids not wanted them I am not going, so it puts hubby and I in a rock in a hard place.