Just Pass Me By

Now my job is a little different then it is at the other center a little bit, where we speak with the parents a little. I have found for I speak I am thinking a lot harder about what I want to say. I do not want to upset a person because I phrase something wrong, even if I am innocent in doing it. Now I will say when I slowdown and think it tends to make me sound stupid, or slow. I am a very direct person so it very hard for me to think of what I wanting to say and then putting it in a less direct way. Now I am not saying I go totally from where I would naturally be.
I wish I was like my husband in some regard to knowing how to say things, like good
fat burner goes after the fat. He seems to be able to beat around a bush and people get it and I try I get asked a lot of question, so then a simple conversation for me ends up being a very long one. I do not mind talking to parents, but I do not want to make them upset because a lot of them are just know finding out whats going on, and I do not want to make it worst.

This morning I was listening to the radio. There was this listener who emailed the station with a question about a guy she was dating for about 10 weeks. He had took her out on like 5 dates, and one of them was a weekend away in a hotel room. Okay She only known the guy for 10 weeks, this is way too soon to be sleeping with him, but that beyond the point right now. What she had said is the guy had a dairy of all the dates he been on and with detailed information. This concerned her, so she emailed the radio station. The guy had did the same date with at least 5 different woman. Okay first off you’ve sleeped with him if it wasn’t protected then might want to get yourself checked for a gift or 2. Something I once heard is, why buy the cow when you’re already getting the milk. Okay I know people have relationships outside of marriage and I will tell you what, my hubby and I didn’t, I trust my hubby with any woman because I know he wouldn’t cross that line. He waited till we was married and this speaks volumes if a guy waiting for marriage he probably will not stray. This girl felt something was wrong like maybe this guy was too good to be true. Okay I remember my hubby in a men’s tuxedo shirts, but I never felt he was to0 good to be true.
Well I will not say I agree or disagreed with her searching threw his things to find this dairy but in a way I think it best that she knows this. It is kind of odd for a man to keep repeating all his dates and keep notes about what went wrong. Okay this to me is creepy. Now this girl got a problem of what to do. I say break up run the other way because clearly this guy doesn’t have respect for you. I am sorry after 10 weeks of knowing someone it too soon to sleep with them.
I would have thought had I not known he kept repeating the same date with different girls that it was sweet but repeating the same things seems odd. My husband never wants to do what he might have done with a other girl. Thankfully I am a strange woman and it doesn’t have a struggle. Something my husband taught me if a guy really is in love with you he doesn’t have to have a physical relationship while dating.