Just Pass Me By

Some days we have to treat dad like a child. I understand he likes the casino, and it can be fun. I would have loved to leave him stay and play but no change of clothes. Dad sometimes loses control of his body. I understand this but he cannot sit in it. Dad when he felt he might need to go potty decided, to wait a little too long, and had a accident. When I told him then we need to go home and come back. He told me no and tried yelling at me. I texted my hubby who was in the potty and told him, what had happened. He came out and told Dad either we leave now, and come back tonight or tomorrow after you clean up or we do not come back to casino for a month.
Dad did the typical I am going to lash out at the girl. So I told him you’re the one who decided to **** on yourself, and I didn’t say we couldn’t come back. I said we needed to go home because it not okay for your to sit in your ****.. He got mad at me. I got annoyed with him. If he would just not argue and come with right away we could have made a trip back out right away. I know I found the
cheapest car insurance in my area, but I am not sure they would cover my car interior for damage at least none got on the seat or in the car.
Maybe it time to start considering options if dad is going to wait too long to go potty.
I know it’s embarrassing to him, and I don’t always handle things like this well. I love him, I care about him and sometimes he thinks I am horrible because I feel we need to do things a certain way for his best interest. So looks like Thursday we will go to the casino with dad and hopefully he will have a good night.