Just Pass Me By

The other day I posted about the brats next door yelling at my dog. Well the other day I took shadow out for her walk, she was going potty outside, and the little girl tells yells at her. “Bad dog”. I turned around and told her that dog isn’t bad you’re being bad for yelling at us. Now be quiet. She went in and cried to her mom, the next walk I had shadow on the little girl said nothing, she don’t talk to me anymore. Which is somewhat funny, that one simple sentence would get her to cry. Oh well, not what my intentions was it was more to get her to stop screaming at the dog. Shadow is not very timid unless someone makes a loud noise and once that happens shadow will not go potty for 5 to 10 minutes or maybe not at all depending on how scared she gets by yelling. Shadow is a good dog but lately she been a little pill. She loves greeting people, but she likes trying to talk to them too and this sometimes worries people and I understand that. I need to get some
cheap printing for all the pictures of the dog and cat I have here. Hubby got quiet of few of her doing her business, those one can be deleted.

Don’t get me wrong I love my husband and think he is bright. He a very intelligent man, but has a bad habit of procrastination, this stresses me out, especially when it deals with financial problems. There are some things that procrastination does not bug me bad, but when it comes to family things or school work it just not what I want to do. Yep you guessed it his the procrastinator and I am the lets get it done with and deal with it, because then later we do not have to worry. I told him until he started his work I was not going to do mine because I am annoyed with having to give him things more than once. If I keep letting him do it to me I will have to keep compiling what he needs until he finally gets it. Well I do not have time to be wasting and what he needs to do they require as much information if not more than asset based lending. reminded him last night that he needed to let me know when he started and he yelled at me because he was already under pressure because he didn’t complete something he should have and now he under a deadline. I don’t think I was adding pressure because he told me he had started it, and was trying to get a idea of where he was at on it so I knew when to get my crap together. I am not going to redo it again in 3 months. I done it twice now and do not want to do it a third time because he has a habit of waiting too long. I do not have time for that I am trying to run a household here, and he could make it a little simpler. He thinks he the only one stressed, he not the one home all day caring for his dad, and get the brunt of crap when dad don’t get his way. Now dad has been doing a whole lot better on his new meds and isn’t as bad as he was a month ago. So caring for dad isn’t too bad but it does get hard.
The thing is if he needs help all he has to do is ask me and give me what needs to be completed and I might be intelligent enough to help him with it. I file my own taxes and this if i have everything wouldn’t be to hard to do.

I would like to know how many times Otis needs to be just about squish to learn walking under my feet is not a good plan; or hiding in places where I might decide to close because it is in the way. Since I know the cat will hide behind my not so modern furniture if I move it I have to look behind it, it’s amazing how he can fit behind a space almost smaller then his body. I guess if his head fits it, he can fit his body into the space. Last night I just about tripped over him when I got up, he gotten into a habit of sitting right next to my chair almost in front of me. If I am not getting ready to walk on him, I am trying to lay my lap top on him. He meows at me for that, well what he expects if he laying right where I normally keep the computer when not in use.
Shadow isn’t too bad her thing is to try to get in your lap when you have the computer there. Then if you do sit with her she somehow manages to do something to make typing challenging or closes out documents that are open.

Dad is now out of his coloring stuff, so now I will need to make time for a trip to Michaels. I found that the paint by numbers did not go well for us during the summer it was to warm. The paint on the brushed dried to quickly and when I had the AC on it dried just as fast, because of the location of A/C. Yes in Minnesota, we have days in the morning you need the heater on and in the afternoon you need the AC. I hardly use it if my hubby had a choice he would use it anytime it got over 80. I don’t do it until it gets close to 90 or better or the humidity is very high. Dad enjoys coloring those fluffy pictures, and does pretty good. I wish dad would realize that there is no such thing as a mistake on coloring those, because his look pretty. Coloring seems to help dad feel well and I need to get something for him soon to do.
He wants me to attempt drawing freestyle but that simply not my cup of tea. I can do many artistic things but drawing is not one of them. I could decorate a Outer Banks foreclosures and do okay at it. I could decorate the apartment and do well at it but we never started hanging things up until recently.