Just Pass Me By

Don’t get me wrong I love my husband and think he is bright. He a very intelligent man, but has a bad habit of procrastination, this stresses me out, especially when it deals with financial problems. There are some things that procrastination does not bug me bad, but when it comes to family things or school work it just not what I want to do. Yep you guessed it his the procrastinator and I am the lets get it done with and deal with it, because then later we do not have to worry. I told him until he started his work I was not going to do mine because I am annoyed with having to give him things more than once. If I keep letting him do it to me I will have to keep compiling what he needs until he finally gets it. Well I do not have time to be wasting and what he needs to do they require as much information if not more than asset based lending. reminded him last night that he needed to let me know when he started and he yelled at me because he was already under pressure because he didn’t complete something he should have and now he under a deadline. I don’t think I was adding pressure because he told me he had started it, and was trying to get a idea of where he was at on it so I knew when to get my crap together. I am not going to redo it again in 3 months. I done it twice now and do not want to do it a third time because he has a habit of waiting too long. I do not have time for that I am trying to run a household here, and he could make it a little simpler. He thinks he the only one stressed, he not the one home all day caring for his dad, and get the brunt of crap when dad don’t get his way. Now dad has been doing a whole lot better on his new meds and isn’t as bad as he was a month ago. So caring for dad isn’t too bad but it does get hard.
The thing is if he needs help all he has to do is ask me and give me what needs to be completed and I might be intelligent enough to help him with it. I file my own taxes and this if i have everything wouldn’t be to hard to do.